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Sunday, 13 May 2012

Kinky is as kinky does...

Hey lovely people so hows your week been? Well I'm certainly glad last week is over and done with. As some of you maybe aware things were a bit heated around here. And I am now pleased to say that the noise war of 2012 is finally over and that calm and tranquility has once again returned. Also I found out who.was responsible for writing that literary masterpiece of insults and it actually wasn't the guy who I'd been arguing with, it was actually two of the other housemates not involved in the argument, two people that thought stirring up a shit storm would be conducive to achieving a peaceful house. I promised Miss banana that I wouldn't have a crack that culprits for the sake of peace. However being that they both apparently think its acceptable to bitch about.someone online behind their backs and via my blog no less I figured I'd write about it instead. Also considering they think so little of my blog and me they sure do spend a lot of time reading it. So here's what I think about their appalling behaviour.....nothing. Your shocking abuse of the English language however is something I do care about because if you insist on insulting me at least use the correct words suited to the context e.g slag and whore. Dictionary definition of Slag- The vitreous mass left as a residue by smelting of metallic ore also called cinder....last I checked I'm a human. 2. A mass of of rough fragments of pyroclastic rock and cinders derived from a volcanic eruption. Whore- A prostitute(i haven't once taken money for sex you swine!) 2. Someone considered sexually promiscuous....hardly an insult boys when I don't make any bones about being so. Dictionary definition of not giving a fuck(as in not giving a fuck about what you think) meaning to not care about something or a certain situation. Admittedly when I first read the comment left by those two I went ballistic, not because they had called me a slag or a whore but due to them saying I needed my head tested for liking kinky sex. I can't believe I let one comment make me feel even remotely bad for liking what I like that soon after reading it I texted the kinkiest man I know(the guy that appeared in my last post) but not for a dirty sext fest but because as much as I hate to admit it I was upset. It wasn't a case of needing a knight in shining armour to make me feel better because(a) I'm a big girl and can handle my shit and (b) he is just not that guy. I just needed some friendly advice on how to get them to stop harassing me at home and online. For a split second I even considered doing CBT to get rid of my kinks, however it didn't work for Marquis de Sade and it sure as shit wouldn't work for me...simply because I like my fucking kinks thank you very much you closed minded bigots I'd rather have some hot guy piss all over me, take a cane to my ass and put clamps on my nips than have boring missionary position sex...so judge all you want. There is a bit more I'd like to say about the guy that appeared in my last post. After a quick catch up. He told me that I should stop comparing other men to him. I simply retorted that I didn't compare other men to him and that I merely have an acquired taste and know what I like. Him being super cocky and all thought I'd said good taste...haha more like bad taste. I then pointed out how arrogance was such a turn off. Then the next thing he said, which made me do the whole pfffft bloody cheek was this and I quote " if I turned round and said lets go do all those things I said I'd do to you like you would say no" clearly implying that he could have me anytime he wanted me. :-P rereading that back it sounds like we were having a total bitch fest. On the contrary it was quite the opposite and said with good humor. However I will say this if you are reading this I suggest you go back and read what I wrote carefully. The general gist of it is, yes I do find you attractive however it is your kinks that I find most appealing e.g what I meant by "i could spend hours trawling through fetlife and not find anyone quite like him" was that I don't think I'd find anyone I was attracted to that shares the same specific set of kinks like my own. And what I meant by "He would only so much to have to crook his finger" was that I simply don't submit to anyone in the bedroom, e.g there are a lot of factors involved for me, predominantly personality, build, trust and of course given that we have spoken extensively about the subject they have to be a 100% dominant in the bedroom, I'm really sorry but I do find it hard to submit to a switch. I do have one last thing to say I on the subject. I am not a toy that you can pick up and put down, nor am I a dog that will come running the second you click your fingers, the fact dear friend that you think you can have me so easily is the opposite of Viagra, in other words it makes my girl boner disappear. In order to so much as get a foot over the threshold of my boudoir you would have to work a lot harder by seeing me less as a commodity and more as a lady. I am officially off the menu to you, that is not a challenge it is merely a fact that you will never see me naked again. So to the man goss. A friend of a friend added me on Facebook, I'll call him Taurus simply because he is a Taurus and because of his lovely tattoo. After a quick nose at a couple of his pics I thought he was hot....dark hair, dark eyes smoking hot bod....riiiipped and a fantastic arse. After he messaged me and said he'd read my blog suffice to say he is a fellow kinkster. One night last week(the same night the comment was posted to my blog) he swung by work to see our mutual friend, he's even better looking in person. After I'd finished work at stupid o'clock in the morning I gave him directions to come and meet me. He did make me laugh when he walked into my room and said he was expecting bondage gear to be adorning the walls. The conversation flowed fluidly and quickly turned to kink, we discussed our love of the psychology behind it and briefly touched upon Freud's theories, and how its fascinating how our minds work and why we like what we like and both of us said that we could pin-point the experiences that lead us both to the kinks we had. Whilst he shared his story I wasn't forth coming with mine as I can recall only ever having told two people. As you all know I don't as rule practice kink with someone I don't know so I set the boundaries pretty quickly. Taurus is a switch and as I said earlier I find it hard submitting to a switch simply due to the fact most males switches tend to be predominantly sub and given that I too am sub in the long run someones needs are eventually going to feel like they are not being met. And I'm not sure I can imagine him domming me. However we did have a lot of fun, his nips are so sensitive, and he likes having them licked and squeezed so hard my knuckles turned white, he also liked my talons to the point where I made him bleed twice the second time being when he made me come with his fingers. Whilst we didn't fuck we had a great time and both came, I'm saving that until next time. I still don't know if I can imagine him domming me though, but then again I don't know him therefore can't make that decision yet. And on that note I'll leave it there Stay kinky Kinky Cupcake XOXO

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